By Ryan W. Quinn
I once sat in a meeting with a group of colleagues who were discussing a serious work issue. At one point in the conversation, the discussion got heated, between two of the colleagues in particular. After two or three minutes of vigorous discussion about the issue, one of the two colleagues, referencing the famous Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), said, “Well, that is because you are a ‘P’ and I am a ‘J.’” (A ‘P’ in the MBTI means that a person’s style is to think about things, deliberate, collect all the data, and not rush to decisions. A ‘J’ on the other hand, indicates that a person is decisive, quick to judgment, with a bias for action.) To my surprise, when the first colleague finished saying this, the second colleague agreed, the heated discussion ended, and the conversation moved on to another topic.
The reason I was shocked by this interchange was because even though the two colleagues were able to move on peaceably, the work issue they had been discussing was not resolved. It was simply ignored as if nothing had happened. We were no better off as an organization, but everyone seemed to think that this was okay because the fight had ended—almost as if the personality type solved their issue for them! (more…)
